Who would have thought that a time as happy as Christmas could be so controversial? It's supposed to be the happiest time of the year people! Along with the stress of all the preparations, there is that pesky little phrase nobody likes: Happy Holidays. Quite a blah phrase. It's like we are not sure what we are supposed to be happy for so this phrase will do. However, this phrase should not always be taken in offense. Now, before you write me nasty letters, let me explain.
When somebody who does not know us says Happy Holidays, it is not a problem. The poor soul is probably so afraid of offending us that they are playing it safe. I will also point out that there are many people who celebrate other holidays like Hannakah and Kwanza. Retailers are just trying to reach all of their customers regardless of their beliefs. The best response to this is just to say thanks. I am very strong in my beliefs so I have no problem saying Happy Holidays back.
Happy Holidays only becomes offensive when it is specifically used to exclude somebody's beliefs. Calling a menorah candle a holiday light or a Christmas tree a holiday tree is offensive because these are specific symbols for these holidays. Also, trying to force out a display of a Nativity scene when other religions are equally represented is wrong too. If the only thing an Atheist can contribute to a holiday display is a banner bashing all the other religions there, it should not be admitted. They should stick with a something like a Winter Solstice display.
The big question is, are you really that uncomfortable with the fact that you are different from me? If that is the case, then in Oklahoma we should ban all saying of "Boomer Sooner" or "Ride "Em Cowboy" because that could be offensive to the other fans. I also find LSU fans screaming "Tiger Bait" in my face offensive so let's ban that too. Do you see the silliness in this?
So let's all lighten up! If you like saying "Merry Christmas," say it with pride. But if somebody says, "Happy Hannakah," smile and say, "Happy Hannakah to you too."
To everybody just lightening up and having an egg nog,
Culture Girl
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